“哎哎，我今天在party上碰到一个巨帅的帅哥，好喜欢”

“叫什么啊？哪个学校的？”

“不知道哎，我没跟他说话……”

“……”

 咳咳，有多少同学曾经干过这样的事？明明遇到了心仪的那个人，但是却因为不好意思上前搭讪而错失认识对方的机会！讲真，不夸张的说，很多单身狗都是这样单到现在的……

所以，到底如何开启和男神女神之间的友好对话？其实这里面也是有窍门的，这里主页菌为大家奉上能够顺利进行搭讪的5类开场话题，记得做好笔记并勤加练习哦！

1. 自我介绍

在你还跟你的男神女神不认识之前，自我介绍是一个不错的搭讪方式。不过可不是让你像面试一样一本正经介绍自己的姓名、年龄、家乡、兴趣爱好哦。

随意地打个招呼，比如：

“Hello, how are you today? My name is ……. I’m still learning English so please let me know if I make any mistakes.”

如果你已经关注他/她好久了，不妨加上你们第一次见面的地方或者情景，也能迅速拉近距离哦，比如：

“Good morning! We always have coffee at the same time but we’ve never spoken before. My name is …….”

“Hi Angela. You might not remember me but we met at Tom’s Christmas party last year. I’m …….”

2. 聊点万年不会出错的话题

像天气、热点新闻、运动或者娱乐八卦这种通常都是比较安全的搭讪话题，比如：

“Did you watch the Oscars last week? I can’t believe Leonardo DiCaprio finally won one!”

“This weather is crazy! It was cold yesterday and today I came in with an open jacket. I hope it stays warm, don’t you?”

“That basketball game yesterday had me glued to my seat. Wasn’t that a great save at the very end?”

3. “今天过的怎么样？”

如果你实在不确定要跟对方说什么，那不妨就关心下对方今天过的怎么样吧，比如，你可以问对方：

How was your day? / How has your day been so far?

How have you been feeling today?

What have you been doing today?

Has anything exciting happened today?

What are you planning for after work?

Are you doing anything fun after work?

或者你可可以分享下自己今天的有趣的见闻，不过不要只顾得自己blabla说一通哦，注意倾听或者让对方也参与到话题中才是良性的互动哦。

“Good morning! I went camping on Saturday, and of course it rained all day. Was your weekend any better?”

“The day is almost over! Do you have any interesting plans for the evening?”

如果对方明显看起来心情不太好，这时候开个小玩笑或者来点善意的鼓励也会让对方感觉很暖心，比如：

“Hey there. You look like you’re having a rough day. I hope it gets better for you.”

4. 真诚的赞美

有的时候跟陌生人搭讪一点都不难，真诚的赞美可以一秒打破尴尬局面，谁不喜欢听赞美的词呢？不过记得赞美最好要具体一点，比如，

“I love your shoes today, they really pull your outfit together.”

这肯定要比直接说“you are beautiful”更加让人开心啦。

“Did you see? They finally fixed the light in the break room. It’s been broken for almost a month!”

“Hey Pam, your cookies last night were delicious! Thank you for making them for the party.”

赞美加感谢，没有人能抵抗的了这样的好意。

5. 抓住共同点

如果你跟你的男神女神有共同点那就最好啦，这个共同点可以是一样的兴趣爱好、一样的物品、上一样的课或者是有一个共同的朋友，这样你们就可以开始愉快的聊天啦，上一样的课可以一起吐槽下老师，有共同的朋友可以吐槽下这位朋友（什么仇什么怨，哈哈）

比如，

“My cousin mentioned you last night. I didn’t know you knew her! Where did you meet?”

“I noticed your hat has a Yankees logo. Are you a fan of baseball too?”

“I tried baking cookies like yours last night and they came out terrible. How do you make them so good?”

最后，想要跟心仪的对象有交集，最最重要的一步就是张开嘴！无论聊什么只有开始聊了才有下一步啊！所以，勇敢地去搭讪吧！