你们有没有这样的经历，在茫茫人海中，会被“美女”或“帅哥”所吸引，忍不住想多看几眼，那么有没有想过ta是如何吸引到你呢？今天一起来看看有魅力的人到底有什么样的特质。

1. Smile  微笑

It is hardly surprising that smiling is on the list. What is surprising though, is that many women don’t realize how attractive they are to men when they have a big grin on their face. A bright genuine smile lights up your whole face and really does show you at your best. Even science has concluded that a smile is your most attractive feature, whether you’re a man or a woman.

微笑的重要性不言而喻。然而令人惊讶的是，很多女性不知道她们的微笑对男人是多么有杀伤力。一个灿烂的真诚的笑容可以点亮你的面庞，真正地展示你最美的一面。科学家也得出结论，微笑是最吸引人的特征，无论你是男人还是女人。

2. Eyes  眼神

The right kind of makeup can really help to accentuate your eyes, another feature which many men notice way ahead of more predictable physical attributes. What men find really attractive is when women make and hold eye contact with them. It might seem a little forward to stare deep into a man’s soul when he is standing across a crowded bar, but it’s a very clear way of letting a guy know you’re interested. Intimate eye contact is incredibly attractive too. After all, the eyes are the window to the soul.

正 确的妆容可以助你突显你的眼睛，这是许多男人注意到的另一个特点，这也是可以让男人更容易看到的特征。男人觉得真正吸引人的是女人与他的眼神交流。当他站 在一个拥挤的酒吧里时，你盯着他好似要看到他的灵魂深处，这似乎有点直接，但确实是让一个人知道你对他有好感的一个很明显的方式。亲密的目光接触也非常吸 引人。毕竟，眼睛是心灵的窗户。

3. Laughter   笑声

If a smile is a secret weapon when it comes to making an impression on the opposite s*x, then imagine how powerful your laugh could be? Even science backs this one up, where a German study measured women’s laughter and found that it not only correlated with how attractive they found the man they were talking to but also with how attractive he found her! Of course, if your laughter happens to include loud snorts and grunts then the chances are you weren’t wowing any blokes. Coquettish giggles are much more likely to be successful.

如 果一个微笑是一个让你对异性产生好印象的秘密武器，那么想象一下你的优雅笑声该有多强大?在科学角度，德国的一项研究测量了女性的笑声，发现笑声不仅对她 们所交谈的男人有很大的吸引力，而且还与他能否找到她其他的吸引力有关。当然，如果你的笑声中有响亮的鼻息声和咕噜声，那么很有可能你就失败了。另外，含 蓄而不失风情的嬉笑更有可能成功噢。

4. Sense Of Style    有时尚感

It won’t come as any real surprise to learn that men often notice what a woman is wearing when they see her in a bar or in the street. Are they wearing a tight dress? Are they wearing the color red? Or they wearing high heels? While you might expect men to show more interest in girls who wear short skirts or revealing tops, the truth is that what they are really looking for is someone who has their own sense of style. It all comes down to self-confidence. If you’re comfortable enough in your own skin to wear clothes that stand out from the crowd, then the chances are that your personality will do exactly the same thing.

当 男生在酒吧或大街上看到女生时，他们往往会注意到她穿的是什么，这很好理解。她穿着紧身的衣服吗?她穿的是大红色吗?穿什么样的高跟鞋?虽然你可能认为男 人对穿短裙或露出上衣的女孩更感兴趣，但事实是他们真正想要的是一个有自己风格的人。这一切都归结于自信。如果你对自己的肤质很自信，可以穿出从人群中脱 颖而出的衣服，那么很有可能你的个性会让你吸引力爆表。

5. Self-Confidence  自信满满

A lot of the attributes that have appeared on this list already–eye contact, unique sense of style, sense of humor, the way you compose yourself in public–are all indicative of self-confidence, a very attractive trait in women according to a lot of single guys out there. This might put some men off, but if you manage to get the attention of a self-confident girl, then you’re in for a much more enjoyable time than if you’re in a relationship with someone who needs constant reassurance because they lack self-confidence.

上述很多特征诸如目光接触，独特的风格，微笑等等，这些你在公共场合的表现自我的方式都是自信的象征，这是很多单身男人在女性身上发现的非常吸引人的特质。如果你能够得到一个自信的女孩的青睐，那么这样就会比你和一个需要经常被安慰，缺乏自信的女生相处的更愉快。

6. Attitude  宽以待人

Not only do men notice physical attributes beyond the obvious boobs and butt, but they also notice how a woman acts towards those around her. It could be something as simple as how she speaks to the bartender or the waiter–minding her pleases and thank yous–or how she reacts towards someone less fortunate than herself. Perhaps she gives a homeless person on the street a few coins, rather than stepping over them while she checks her phone.

男生不仅会注意到除了丰乳肥臀之外的身体特征，而且还会注意到一个女生如何对待周围的人。比如她如何对酒保或等待她的人表达她的谢意和开心——或者她对不如自己幸运的人的反应。也许她会在街上给一个无家可归的人几枚硬币，而不是一边玩手机一边视若无睹。