文：“沪江英语”（hjenglish）
说起求婚，脑袋中浮现的画面都是这样的——
男生单膝跪下，手中举着钻戒，深情而又专注的问你：“Will you marry me?”
但看过《老友记》（Friends）的童鞋都一定知道，求婚并不一定都是男生主动。
第六季结尾，当 Monica 跪下深情地向 Chandler 求婚时候，真的看哭一片真爱粉。
现场真的超级感动↓↓
国外 Reddit 就有一个非常有趣的帖子——
Men who have been proposed to by their girlfriends, how did you feel about it?
被女友求婚的男生会有什么样的体验？
主页菌选取了7个特别有意思的回答，一起来看看~
So I was the girlfriend... he glowed for days afterward. Looked up the statistics and glowed some more. He didn't care that it's typically the guy's job to do the asking, he was too busy being overwhelmed by the fact that I love him enough to ask.
所以我是那个求婚的女友……我男朋友在那之后容光焕发了好几天。看了看被女友求婚的相关数据又更加嘚瑟了。他完全不在意求婚应该是由男生来做的事情，他已经沉浸在我爱他已经爱到了主动求婚的事实里了。
感情是双向的。你的男朋友内心说不定也是个渴望宠爱的小公举呢~
Not me, but my mom proposed to my dad because she got tired of waiting for him after they’d been going out for almost 10 years. He was casual about it and was like, “Sure I’ll marry you. “
不是我本人，但是我妈妈向我爸爸求的婚，因为他们交往了快十年，我妈已经不想再接着等待了。我爸的反应很淡定：“好啊，我娶你啊。”
My dad was always shy and my mother more direct. They’d known each other since they were 15 so they’d been together for so long they kinda forgot about marriage.
我爸是个害羞的人，我妈是主动的那方。他们从15岁就认识了，在一起太久了都忘记了结婚这件事情。
青梅竹马的恋爱太可爱了，在一起太久，居然可以这么淡定地对待婚姻。估计每天的日常，也是各种撒糖....
My gf walked up behind me while I was cooking, hugged me, and said "What would you say if I asked you to marry me?" I said "I'd probably say yes"
我女朋友在我做饭的时候从后面向我走近，从背后把我抱住然后说：“如果我现在让你和我结婚，你会说什么？” 我说：“我大概会说好的”
We've been married 22 years and I’m still waiting for her to actually propose...
我们现在已经结婚22年了，我还在等她好好向我求婚…
现在的国外小姐姐都这么帅的嘛~
背后抱住什么的，不是霸道总裁的必杀绝技嘛，太苏了！
Didn't once occur to me what the conventional norm was supposed to be. Didn't feel emasculated or anything. Just felt so loved.
我从来没有觉得有什么必须由男生来求婚的规定。没有觉得让我的男子汉气概受损。只是单纯的感受了被爱的感觉。
Actually, I did at one point think, 'f**k, getting proposed to is the best feelings in the world, f*** me, I can't do this for her now. F*****k, how do I make her feel as loved as she is making me feel in this moment. F***K. This love shit is so hard.'
其实有一瞬间我有想过：“我去，被求婚的感觉真的太爽了，现在我没有办法让她也感受到一样的幸福了。我的天我该怎么让她感受到和我现在一样的被爱着，这也太难了吧。”
Unfortunately, she passed away 5-months after that, and I never did get to wait for her at the end of the aisle.
可惜，她五个月之后去世了，我没有等到看到她穿着婚纱在教堂走向我的美丽模样。
天呐，这么美好的爱情，却以悲剧收场，真的太虐了，主页菌的心脏无法承受这样的暴击。
希望这位有爱的答主能早日从悲痛中走出来。
My husband says he was just fine with it. Although he 'didn't get proposed to by his girlfriend, I got proposed to by my future wife.'
我的老公说他没有觉得有什么问题。虽然他说没有被女朋友求婚，我可是被我未来的老婆求的婚。”
He is so cheesy. Love him.
他真的超俗套的，但是我爱他。
土味情话还是能赢得芳心的哈哈哈。
My gf said “if your friend Matt and his gf get married before us that’s BS.”
I said “are you proposing?”
我的女朋友说：“如果你的朋友马特和他女朋友比我们先结婚不是很糟糕吗。”
我说：“诶，你这是在向我求婚吗？”
She wasn’t but got down on one knee anyway and did.I cried.
她本来没有这个打算，但是她单膝跪地然后向我求了婚。我哭了。
She’s made me a happy man.
她让我成为了最幸福的男人。
其实单膝跪地，向自己爱的人求婚并不是男性专属的权利。每个人都希望自己被爱着，都希望感受爱意。
Pretty good about it I guess because I said yes.
感觉非常好，我想是因为我说了“Yes”。
Even better now because 20 years or so later I get to say "hey this was YOUR idea"
即使是现在已经20年过去了，或者更久之后，我能说，这是“嘿，是你先求的婚”
一次主动，终身的“黑点”，哈哈哈哈哈
虽然在刻板印象中，求婚就应该是男生的专利。但如果你真的那么爱Ta，也可以做个主动的人呦~
你身边有什么感人的求婚经历吗？欢迎分享~
